I 28F been with my husband 28M since high school I don't have much sexual experience with others to know whats normal.
Lately I just want to be cared for, we've both been going through a lot. ive expressed that I crave intimacy but he makes fun of me for asking and refuses to give in. No cuddling, no hand holding, only have sex when im not in the mood. Absolutely no foreplay or after care. It honestly devastates me when I'm alone in my own head.
I recently asked him about something that interested me. (Feathers, brushes, ect.) We've been together 10 yrs it's time to switch things up and I think it's hot. He told me that was the stupidest thing in the world, and he'd be part taking in "normal" sex only….
Are there other ways to ask or things to do to make the processes smoother? Anyone with experience in this area?