Breeding kink weirdness

I met up with a couple a year ago through Reddit. We chatted about being tested for STIs. I go to their apartment. He wants to watch. I’m kind of an exhibitionist so it’s hot to me. He’s just sitting there watching while his gf and I are doing all kinds of oral sex. But then when it comes to PIV, I start to put on a condom and he’s like ‘No. I only want you to fuck her raw and to cum inside her’ It was non sequitur for both of us. I just got up and left. Am I the weird one here?