Scenario: you and someone just had sex. What was the best thing you or they have done after?

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2. Another bong rip and ice cream

3. Heading to the bathroom to pee is the best thing ever. UTIs suck.

4. The best immediately after is to play with my hair while cuddling and not say anything stupid!

   And then make me fresh, scrambled eggs.

5. Brought me a snack and my vape pen! 😂

6. He snuck out before I woke up and got us donuts and coffee

7. Definitely cuddling after

8. Cuddle in a warm bath together.

9. My ex used to go run the tap and bring me a warm washcloth to clean up with. It was lovely.

10. Told me to go pee while they waited for cuddles. Showed a different kind of understanding, knowing that I’ve had UTIs before

11. Hot washcloths and a lot cig/blunt

12. Went into the kitchen and came back with a piece of cake for me.

13. I know I should pee etc right after, but I really really dislike getting up immediately after sex and I also really want my partner to lie on me/next to me for at least 5-10 minutes while we catch our breath. I feel very vulnerable after sex and those few moments of touch are so important for me to feel safe. But yes, after that quick bathroom trip or shower depending on how messy stuff was. And then cuddles cuddles cuddles and pillow talk, followed either by food if we’re hungry or zzzz

14. It’s the cuddling naked afterwards for me

15. Go get food😂

16. I had a guy who hopped up and made milkshakes. I can’t say for sure that was the best, but it definitely left an impression.

17. Leave

18. He left. I don’t care for contact after or talking and cuddling I hate sleeping next to a partner I know I’m the odd one out

19. Cuddling? And hopefully yap about the most random stuff

20. Told me he’s so happy he married me 🙂

21. Make sure each partner is satisfied with the experience. Listen well and be receptive to feedback.