My GF(18F) and I(18M) went to a party together last week, she got fairly tipsy and we made out. In the moment I thought this was okay and went along with it but I realised it wasn’t.
It lead to an argument and she doesn’t feel safe being drunk around me, we’ve decided that we want to fix this but we don’t know where to start.
Does anyone have any advice or has anyone been in a similar situation?
TL;DR: made out while drunk trust was lost but we want to fix it
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Wait so… you and your gf made out while drunk? I don’t see the problem.
Idgi at all.
Google how to rebuild trust and read together some of the articles that come up. pick out the ideas of what you both think could help and feels doable, and go from there.
I’m confused. You both got drunk and you made out. Your boyfriend and girlfriend. People in relationships generally tend to make out when they want to. So why would that lead to a breach in trust? This doesn’t make any sense.