I have developed a slight crush on my coworker and I don’t know what to do. We work in the same department, we’re the same age. We text all day, every day continuously. Sometimes we talk on the phone, and the conversations are always great. We’ve had so many deep conversations, we know each other really well now. We’re really great friends and I really enjoy our friendship. We’ve never hung out one on one before and I don’t want to be the one to initiate that because I’m not sure how he feels about me. I can’t tell if he just likes having me as a friend, or is it something more? – but do men in their mid-20’s really text / constantly talk to a girl every day, even on the weekends if he thinks of her as just a friend? I am scared to say anything because I don’t want to ruin our friendship and I also don’t want to make things awkward at work. I guess it’s just hard because I am starting to like him. Not sure what to do about it.
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We text and chat a lot with those people we like on some level. I don’t know where are you from, but considering it is happening at work, it can be risky for a man to ask a girl out from work. All the accusations etc etc. I have similar situation, I was lucky because she asked my number so I could ask her out via message. He could do the same, but he might have the fear I had asking that girl out from work. My opinion is, nothing bad can happen if you ask him to do something together. Go for a hike or do something active while you can also talk. That’s my suggestion. Don’t overthink it, everything will reveal itself, just make the move.
Have you ever heard the phrase “don’t shit where you eat” ? It hardly goes well when dating coworkers