Alright… so there’s often a point at which the relationship switches from ‘EVERYTHING feels reassuring and amazing’, to a phase in which the woman feels like the guy is pulling away and losing interest. But…. (as a woman myself) are women often (not always) just getting more demanding as they get more attached?…cause when I really think about it – he’s not messaging less. I am just getting hyper aware of his actions, cause I’m invested now.
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Yes.
Maybe this is gender agnostic because I had this happen in my last relationship with my girlfriend. Maybe it’s attachment styles.
Difficult to say because people can expect relationships to progress so expectations can increase and that is valid. It’s also valid for a partner to say they cannot meet those expectations. Then they both need to decide is there an ability to compromise or does it need to end.