i (19f) matched with this guy on tinder, and even though initially it was for a hookup we started talking a lot about different things (the conversations never turned sexual but we clicked well). he then said he wanted to see me, he planned this whole elaborate thing to go sightseeing, ice skating etc. i’m confused lol because I told him i didn’t want to hookup anymore and he said that’s fine. he even insinuated about a second meeting lol idk if i trust this whole situation because i’m a bit skeptical. i did tell him clearly i don’t want any hookups though. he also repeatedly compliments my intellect. one thing though is that he did see my face and at times when we’re talking about vulnerable stuff he says he wants to feel my face idk what that means
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He seems to like you more seriously than just for a hook up.
He wants to feel your face? Sounds like you need to run far away from this individual.
People usually don’t totally know what they want, or they want more than one thing.
“Hook ups” feel like they’re lower risk of rejection, less vulnerability. Maybe you’re dating now?
It sounds like his initial intention was to hook up with you, but after talking to you he has realized that he actually likes talking to you and there is potential for a real relationship with you, so now he wants to pursue that. These things happen sometimes.
As for poking your face, I don’t know what that’s about. Maybe he’s trying to be cute? Maybe he’s trying to say you’re cute? Maybe he has a fetish for cheeks? I have no idea there, sorry.