Having boy problems pls help 🥺

So I met this guy in Jan and we became fwb for a month and I just wanna have fun at that time. After that I moved to another city but he still texts me every day and says he really likes me and he’s not just looking for fun. So we did a road trip together and I met some of his close friends. He even came to my city in April for a weekend. I’ve since noticed he is very sweet and we both enjoy going out and doing activities like hikes, long drives and travelling, I feel very safe and secure with him, and very hot and of course we have great physical chemistry and I’m emotionally comfortable with him too.

So I asked him if he wanna serious relationship in May and he said yes. But due to long-distance so we pretty much still go with the flow.

I went on another trip with him last week. But I feel he went cold on me this time and basically he told me he changed his mind and he’s not ready for anything as he’s not sure what he really wants and he’s very unstable.

Now I just feel really hurt. I helped him out financially and I do feel something between us more than friends, but he’s not serious about me.

I was really devastated and depressed afterwards but I felt hopeful that I might finally get over him. Unfortunately I STILL haven’t stopped thinking about him and I still dream of him every night. At this point I really don’t know what to do because he’s always on my mind.

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Can anyone give advice on what I should do please!!

3 comments
  1. Give a bj to the first guy you meet. That will fill your mind and soul with conflicting desires of moving on and staying with this new guy removing space in your head of the old guy.

  2. In a LDR, when someone goes from hot to cold during a separation, it’s usually a sign that the suddenly cold person has found something good at the remote location. Not the material for a commitment or long term relationship. But there is a chance that the cold person will outgrow the infatuation, realize how spectacular you are, and want to come back. So don’t completely burn the bridges.

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