We broke up due to some unavoidable circumstances; It was neither of ours fault, it was just not possible to be together, but we loved and love each other beyond anything. I really felt this was the one relationship, and that it would be one of those childhood to marriage love stories. But it has ended, and it can’t be restored because its not in our hands to stay together (some personal reasons). I can’t think of life ahead, I feel like crying, dying and punching the wall. How do you overcome a relationship that you thought was a forever one, was as deep as any love story that ever existed? I can’t even think of being with someone else or imagine her being with someone else.
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TL;DR: I broke up and feel extremely depressed and low.
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I’m in the same boat as you. I’m just commenting to follow any advice anyone can give. So far I’ve just been watch YouTube, Movies, and playing the Nintendo Switch to distract myself. 😕
You give yourself time and allow totally to be sad while still maintaining your regular life until it starts to hurt less.
Time for a tub of chocolate ice cream.
Time! Once you take some time to be sad, get out into the world and find your own joys. I find that learning how to be alone can become a super power, once you are happy being alone the next person who comes along that you want to be with can only add to it. Try a new hobby, remember to get outside and get some exercise (good for your brain!). Try to maintain a sense of routine, achieve a few normal everyday tasks every day. Don’t focus on being alone or never finding that person, you are going to hurt for awhile but someday you will realize on accident that you’ve moved on and you are ready to date again.