So I’m asking on behalf of F(21), who is interested in exploring sexual hook up/one night stand type scene. She’s pretty inexperienced, but not entirely so, and has a very active sexual imagination and fantasy life, which she wishes to explore more…
She’s worried about safety, and so am I tbh (on her behalf!). I’ve been trying to talk with her about sensible precautions (what happened to Grace Millane was terrifying, tbh), but I’m not at all experienced in this scene, so have no idea what safety precautions she might be thinking about? I guess the red flag stuff is important to be aware of, but I’m not sure with the speed she’s intending to go, there’ll be too much time, to be able to pick up on these…
Can anyone help? What sorts of things might she consider, to try to remain as safe as possible, whilst still having the freedom to explore her sexual self?