Back in September I was on POF. I’ve always used dating apps as a way to pass time. I’ve never had any intention of meeting anyone. Back in September of 2021 I got a message and normally the conversations wouldn’t last more than 5 minutes but he managed to keep me engaged. Fast forward to April I find myself actually thinking about him and looking forward to our conversations and catching each other up. Prior to April he was just a friendly face to me but I noticed he would compliment me which is something I would see as someone who’s trying to get your attention. We haven’t met due to busy schedules and the few times we’ve tried we both have canceled on each other due to work or personal life. I haven’t really felt this way about someone for about 6 years now. I know this is kind of everywhere but something I wanna mention is he doesn’t pressure me to take time to see him. He’s aware that I have career goals and often tells me to take opportunities even if that means we can’t get together which is what really caught my attention with him. Could this be mutual or is he just a friendly face who compliments me?
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Dude just set up coffee and see how it goes or like pizza or something noncommittal. Pay for yourself make him pay for himself so there is no obligation. At the end of the dinner or like whatever if you don’t feel anything or he doesn’t reciprocate the energy you’re putting out there and you have your answer