Background: I’m 24m, insecure virgin, never had a gf, never been on a date and I don’t really have very good social skills (I never initiate conversations, I can’t hold conversation very well – especially 1 to 1, etc.)
A couple of days ago I went to the club with friends and I ended up kissing a woman (from the same group of friends). This never happened to me before. She took initiative.
Now, I’m pretty sure she has a crush on me and, although this is quite an ego boost, I don’t see myself having a relationship with her because she’s not really my type.
Today she sent me a message thanking me for that night, and telling me I should let her know if I want to do something with just the two of us (I mean, sounds like she wants a date, right?).
I’m not quite sure how to react to that. Like I said, I don’t want a relationship with her, so I don’t know if I should go on a date. But on the other hand… It might be some good practice to talk to a woman 1 on 1, and I could maybe see us being fwb (I could finally lose my v-card, lol). Not sure if that would be a smart thing to do though…
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Make sure she knows you don’t want to be in a relationship if you do decide to do anything