In talking to my therapist, I mentioned how I’ve started to see this girl. We’ve gone on two dates and I like her but I still haven’t quite figured out if I’d like to date her long term. My therapist mentioned that it often takes many dates to figure out if you like someone. Sometimes it’s just not quite evident. Sure with some people there are blatant red flags where after a date or two you think “shoot I can’t date this person”. Other times you date a person for a while and after 5 or 6 dates you decide whether or not to keep dating them. Finally there’s moments where you date someone 6 months and finally decide that you really like them. Just some food for thought.
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Never has it took me that long to figure out if I liked someone or not
If you don’t know ow the moment you lay eyes on the other person you’re not really that into them s/