What is your top quality in a women you want to date that isn’t a physical attribute?

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1. Empathy

2. being present during the tough times and not walking out, kindness and just empathy along with genuine support

3. Intelligence, empathy and enthusiasm.

4. Humor, emotional connection, and intelligence

5. Loyalty and honesty

6. Smart, feminine and kind/empathetic

7. Intelligence, quick wit/darker sense of humor, compassion, honesty, trustworthiness…

8. Emotional warmth. Which I struggle with getting because of the kind of women I crush on.

9. The ability to separate their actions from their emotions.

10. The ability to say the sentence, “I’m sorry, I was wrong.”

11. Empathy, goofiness, and loyalty, ability to communicate and work through problems rather than scrapping the entire relationship

12. Honesty and humor

13. Intelligence and creativity. I’m calling that a single quality.

14. Sexual Positivity.

    I want someone that understands my sexual desire for her is a _good_ thing. Someone who rarely rejects me, but when she does, never tries to make me feel bad for initiating.

15. Intelligence and empathy above everything else. I don’t care if she looks like an underwear model. If she lacks empathy, she is ugly.
    I don’t care if she is a rolly-polly little dumpling, if she has generous helpings of Intelligence and empathy, with a side order of general playfulness, it’s going to work out fine.

16. Self love. Nothing more attractive than a woman who owns her self

17. Willing to actually contribute to the relationship, followed by some basic kindness.

18. Integrity.

19. Initiative, confidence, and accountability.

20. Sense of humor.

21. Humor, kindness, generous, supportive, outgoing,, intelligent, and sporty

22. Intelligence.

    It’s a gentic trait that will be passed on to the children.

23. Intelligence. Everything else is based on that.

24. That’s a hard one to pick. It’s between similar music taste, pure & unadulterated honesty and similar sense of humor. They’re all equally important to me, to be honest.

25. I’ve all but given up on the concept of dating *but* loyalty and empathy would be swell.

26. a brain

27. Their interest in me

28. Positivity

29. she’s peaceful

30. That she doesn’t need to get constant calls or texts through out the day

31. loyalty

32. Don’t be a false accuser

33. Multiple personally disorder.

34. Confidence. When a woman looks and talks like they are the real deal it’s almost impossible to not admire them.

35. Genuine kindness. Not just being nice or polite, but a real concern for others.

36. Trustworthiness.

    Will she gossip every detail about you to her friends, especially the ones that are strangers to you? If things aren’t going well (financially or relationship-wise), can you trust her to be faithful, if she’s states she wants to be with you?

    TLDR; is she a ride or die?

37. can’t decide between sense of humor and just being chill

38. Passion about something that comes with quality of growth.

39. Someone who is physically affectionate.