Me, F(21) him, M(31).
I became FwB with the guy I was dating, but I’m not sure what to think of him.
He acts super into me when I’m with him, he shows a lot of interest and he has told me he likes me many times, but he also acts rude/conceited at times.He’ll say things like “i’ve been getting a lot of likes on Bumble”, or “I cant think of something I cant brag about.” “When u get a boyfriend ur gonna miss our sex”. He also calls me names sometimes like “fucker, bitch, nag,etc. I told him I don’t like that and then he tells me I’m nagging or that he is “just kidding”. I’ve also noticed that he’ll quickly say something sweet if he notices I’m upset. For example, yesterday he texted me in the evening and asked me to come over and I told him I couldn’t, but that we could FaceTime later if he liked. He then said “Tbh, I’m going to sleep early”. Even though he asked me to come over late in the evening. I replied “Then I couldn’t have come over anyways” and then he said “Yeah, we could’ve cuddled on the couch together.” Later that night we were texting again and he sent me a voice message: “God, you’re hard to please these days, are you talking to other guys or something?”And when I didn’t respond to that he said “Oh, you’re actually going to ignore my question”.
Its just so confusing because he can be extremely charming and kind, but he is also kind of mean.