I 28m have been texting someone 30 f for 2 weeks and it annoys me that I am always the one to text first and I’ve ran out of things to text and reasons to
I have friends that tell me to look for someone else but that doesn’t feel right to me I was thinking it’s time to meet up for a date but my life has been busy and hectic recently but I have come up with ideas for places to go but I also have no idea how to ask her out I’ve dated before but my anxiety is just too high to make a good plan our talking to her how texting her is like texting a brick wall that responds and doesn’t text first
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It’s obviously not a comfortable situation with good flow. Chances are the date would be the same. My suggestion is to move along. Don’t put more effort in than the other person is willing in early stages.
It’s still in the development stages, you haven’t even gone on a date. The man starts the pursing first to get the women more emotionally invested. You should only being texting to set up a date or make a statement.
You text too much like you said and you now have nothing to talk about. There is no mystery, why would she be interested if she knows everything.
…just ask her. “I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you through text and would love to take you out to dinner and see if we have chemistry in person” although in the future, don’t wait 2 weeks. 2-3 days tops to set up an in person date. 2 weeks in online dating time is an eternity when any eligible candidate guy or girl is likely going on 2-3 dates with different people weekly