I (24F) and partner (28M) have been together 6 years. We have a 1 year old child.
We have always just thought we are made for each other and even after the most nasty fights somehow made us closer.
From Christmas time I have had this feeling of I want to be single, I want to enjoy life with no one to answer too but then I get upset that I will give my son a broken home.
We are both paranoid of each other but I have never given him a reason to be paranoid of me. He broke my trust. I feel like I can’t do things unless he’s okay with it because if he isn’t he has a complete melt down. He does suffer with depression but it truly drags me down to the point I am on anti depressants now. He can be hostile in an argument but on the other hand he can treat me so incredibly.
I do love him with all I have and I’m scared if I do it I will regret it for all my life.
Any advice would be helpful! Has anyone even been in this situation?
I have mentioned a break to him before and he had a mental breakdown!
3 comments
As long as you two work as a team when it comes to co-parenting, your child won’t have a “broken home”.
If you think you should break up, do it. There should be no stuck, if you’re stuck it’s already over, you just have to do it.
You have a kid. That ship has sailed. Sorry.