Do u guys every feel like you don’t like your personality

I had this problem with people and the way I talk to them. They always end up making funny of me, like bro what did I do anyway I try to be funny with out being too goofy but that’s does not work and being to quiet and serious makes me a target also. One friend told me that I should think before I speak another one told me to stop being so broad about things you talk about. I want to be like my other friend he is so cool and the way his personality is so cool I don’t hate I just Amired him. He is good with talking to people with out people making fun of him. How do I fixed this