I have been in contact with a girl for the past two years. At first it was just small messages or reactions in social media, but now I have her number and even though we don’t talk too much I have always felt her close.
I do want to start dating her and 7 months ago I already asked her to hang out. At first she said yes but in the end she said she was too busy and never appointed other time. Despite this, we kept in touch and now she is the one telling me we should go out for a coffee someday. Should I assume is a date? Would it be weird to clarify it, or just go out and see what happens?
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It’s not a date necessarily but if it’s fun and flirtatious it can be one. If you both smile, maintain eye contact, make innocuous touch like an elbow or hand during a laugh. These are positive indicators of attraction.
Not until it’s clarified.