hi all i need advice. so i met this guy on bumble and we had been texting pretty nicely for a couple days then we made plans for our first date which went amazingly. we went to the park and theatre and connected very well emotionally and physically (not sex.) the day of the date he had been taking a while to text back which was throwing me off but the date still happened and like i said it went perfect and he asked when he would see me again and that we would plan something and kissed me before i got out of the car. for the past couple days he has been texting me, but not like he used to and his response times are very slow now and not as detailed. i don’t understand what happened since we’re both looking for a relationship and since the date went very very well. does anyone have any advice? i cant tell if he’s busy or if he’s just not interested anymore.
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He might think the hard work is out of the way now that he knows you want to see him again. Try bugging him about the next date “we should try this place” and if his response is less than appropriately enthusiastic something might be up.