im wondering if im getting easily attached to people, and how do i go about reducing it or stopping it.
a clear example that made me aware of this is when i was talking to a classmate. the teacher said to talk to the person next to you, so we talked. two classes later, they kept sitting next to me and we still talked and i felt like we made a connection. like i made a new friend, which was nice because i dont have many friends.
but then in the next class, they didnt sit next to me and didnt talk to me when it was time for discussion. nothing has changed since. initially, i felt betrayed. like i lost a friend, but i dont know why.
as i reflected, i realized i dont know this person. we talked twice about small things and suddenly, i felt betrayed like i lost a friend? now im wondering whether i get too easily attached to people. id appreciate any advice or notes 😉
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Learn how to be genuinely busy in your life pursuing your goals and hobbies, while interacting with other people on the side. You will build much needed self esteem and self confidence. People are hardwired to be repulsed by neediness and desperation (which is what happens when you get too attached to somebody) and gravitate towards somebody who is self confident and well rounded in life. The easiesr way to get started is to find something you enjoy doing and keep doing it overtime. Chase excellence, not people.