So I’m a 21(m) and pretty introverted, and I have been on one date since high school. I havent had any luck on dating sites and my looks aren’t bad, I’m like a 6 or 7. So I’m just wondering where some people met their significant others or any advice you might have to get myself back in the dating game.
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So you’re trying to pick up chicks using the shy method, or do you wanna break out of that shell and do some approaching?
Married my high school sweetheart and going through a divorce right now. I’ve had three good options thus far.
One, dating apps. Advice, get good up-to-date pictures of yourself and be honest about who you are.
Two, gather with people who share your hobbies. Play sports? Join a local community center team. Play D&D? Find a game at your local game store. Like to build shit? Take a class. Find like-minded people.
Three, bars. It’s cheesy but it’s tried and true. Strike up conversation with strangers and if you hit it off, great. Buy a girl a drink, and if it just turns out they’re taken or not interested, that’s fine just take the L with a smile and move on with the night.
Hell, you might make new friends at the very least. Just be yourself when you do these things, unless yourself is a creep or an asshole. You’re 21. You’ve got time. Just have some fun.