When was the last time you asked your spouse ” Can I do anything for you ? ” ?

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1. Earlier this evening.

2. He is out of town, so that would be the day he left.

3. Yesterday – but almost everyday, it’s a good thing

4. This morning before he left for work.

5. Not my spouse but my bf of nearly two years. He asks me often if I need him to do things for me. He is a thoughtful man.

6. Yesterday. We ask each other variations on this question all the time. It’s just a standard thing that we check in about regularly.

   * How can I help?
   * Anything I can do for you?
   * How can I make your life better?
   * Is there anything you need?
   * What can I do to help?
   * Can I do anything for you?

7. About 20 minutes ago when I took him a cup of tea.

8. About 10 mins ago when asking if I can get him anything from the shops for when we cook together tomorrow night. We normally ask each other similar things most days

9. Tuesday. We had a great heart to heart and touched base on what we need from each other to feel appreciated and loved

10. Yesterday, I suppose. I always ask if I can get him anything or if he needs anything daily. It’s our normal.

11. Yesterday. Honestly, it’s my go-to when he’s stressed out or upset and I’m not sure how to help.