So I (27F) have been seeing this guy (30M) for about a month. We had sex for the first time two days ago. I was a bit itchy and irritated down there, a little weird discharge, but didn’t think it was crazy. I row and so sometimes the friction causes issues. Turns out it’s a yeast infection……. I want to cry. He went down on me three times for like thirty minutes. I’m so afraid that he will find me repulsive and never want to see me again. I really like him. What are the chances that I gave him thrush? I’m guessing I should tell him? I have no idea how to
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ik u didn’t think of it but next time if you are feeling like that and think something is off down there, tell him u think something is off. It happens especially with it getting hot out and sweating.. all that moisture is a vulnerable spot for YI. You should straight up tell him.. something like “Hey i’ve been feeling off down there so i went to the dr and turns out i have a YI, wanted to let you know blah blah” not telling him at all would be messed up considering he could get it. YI could also have an odor.
It happens, be open and honest with him. I’ve learned, I can tell before my wife can that she is starting a yeast infection. I’ve had thrush several times, first time I had to go to the doctors it was so bad.
That’s tough but honestly he’ll probably be fine. Definitely tell him and see if he’s noticing any symptoms. Hope everything turns out okay!