22(F) I’ve came to the realisation that I really don’t enjoy sex at all. I’ve been with a couple of partners of various ages and experience levels and I’ve never enjoyed it. I’ve never initiated sex or had a strong desire to have sex. I’ve always had sex to make my partner’s happy. I enjoy holding hands, kissing and cuddling but sexual acts have never interested me.
I’ve thought about being in an open relationship but I don’t think I’m emotionally mature for that and I’m better suited in a monogamous relationship. Is it possible for a relationship to last without sex?
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The easiest thing would be to date someone who is also asexual.
Date someone who is also asexual, or at least someone who understands that sex will not be a part of the relationship (my situation right now and it’s been wonderful). The former is obviously ideal, but the latter can work with the right people and situation.
You can but it’s gonna be a lot harder tho