Have you guys ever came across a person where you weren’t attracted to him physically but you wind up changing your mind about the person? If so, what was that made you change your mind about that person?

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1. Generally it’s their personality that does it.

   I used to work with a woman who, initially, I wasn’t attracted to at all. She wasn’t ugly, just not my type. She was also 12 years older than me.

   I worked with her for nearly 5 years and over the course of my time there her personality really pulled me in. She was very caring and understanding. Something I was NOT used to with women as I’ve been treated like shit by them while life. Even my own mother and sisters.

   Well I eventually became VERY attracted to her and saw her differently which then made me physically attracted.

2. Instant connection I had with him and he turned into my bff and bf and we had a relationship for almost 3.5 years and we just split due to his anxiety and both of us knowing we weren’t right for each other..but it was a great relationship, time and have great memories…just remember looks fade but it’s the personality and connections that stay.