So I’m curious am I a “nice guy”? I don’t really talk to girls and probs won’t find a gf anytime soon since I’m a short nerd. I’m not a mean guy, but of course that’s what a “nice guy” would say. But i do hold the belief that generally speaking girls prefer tall, muscular, tall, athletic jocks, pretty white boys. Does that make me a “nice guy”?
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remove that stupid believe in your head
All those qualities are nice but AREN’T MANDATORY.
All women have different preferences and different personalities. We aren’t some robots programmed with predisposed interests. As long as any man is legitimately respectful and friendly it doesn’t matter in my opinion. And when I say legitimately respectful and friendly, I mean that they’d be ok being around me even if I didn’t choose them as a partner. They have to actually LIKE me, not what potential future plans they have with me.
No idea, but it sounds like you spend too much time on Reddit. If you approach things with a negative defeatist attitude, then you will lose every time. Stop presuming to know what every girl wants, and don’t feel like you’re entitled to attention or affection.
Stop caring what others want and focus on what you want and go after it.
I used to be like this too. Girls love when you have a lot of interesting hobbies too and present yourself well. I worked out, got fit, grew my hair. Became a DJ, learned multiple instruments and tried living my life for me. I also even tried commercial modeling despite being short. Soon you’ll find yourself not paying attention to wanting girls and they will just come to you