I recently had a session with a woman who wanted to have her sweaty armpits licked until she orgasmed. This got me really excited and I realized that those pheromones are a total turn-on for me.
I’m just wondering how people would generally feel about being asked not to wear perfume or wash their armpits before a date. Would you feel complimented? Grossed out? Uncomfortable?
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It depends how well you know this person. If you have had sex with them and have verbally expressed your kink to them with words AND gotten a positive response, then it’s okay. My boyfriend loves sniffing my armpits but it took a while for us to both be comfortable with that concept
The perfume but seems normal, maybe save the armpits for when you know each other better
Perfume might be an easier one, you can say perfume generally bothers you. I would hope people wash up before going on a date unless they are unable to (like meeting right after work and not able to go home first).
Id say it’s weird, unless you know them well. If my bf asked me I’d be like sweet I don’t have to shower, but if a first date asked me I’d be a little weirded out
If you have to ask this question, the answer is no.
Kink is *all about consent*. Without consent, it is not kink, it is problematic and violating someone’s boundaries. I’m into a lot of kink, but anyone who does not know me and hasn’t gotten permission to engage me in that way is an automatic red flag, and no longer has a place in my life. They’ve shown I can’t trust them, and they aren’t safe – at the very least, they’re really uneducated and I don’t need that in my life either.
If you want to keep engaging in this, you can ask back the same person. You can intentionally seek out a partner to play with, discuss this, and do it if you both consent. Or you can get to know someone, have a sex/kink/boundary conversation with them and see if this is something they are interested in with you.
What you never do is try to trick someone into engaging in your kinks without consent. Even if it is something small, honestly and consent are absolutely necessary all the time
I hate artificial fragrance so I would love it. I would be the one asking my date not to smell like any artificial fragrance.
On a first date, yes, too weird. It would come across as assuming you all are going to have sex. I think I’d wait until the person expresses desire to do sexual things with you. It’s pretty benign thing to ask, but just got to wait.
Human beings lack the ability to smell pheromones. Not sure what you experienced there, but it wasn’t that. Fun tho!!!
That seems like the kind of thing a partner would possibly be open to in a more committed situation, but outside of actively searching for it on a fetlife I don’t think it would often work in casual settings.
Not all pheromones smell equal.
Some will smell divine, and others will smell awful.
I think that may be how they work.