My wife told me she wants to take a shower together tonight so we can play. However, since giving birth 7 months ago we still haven’t managed to have PIV sex. When we try it’s hard for me to get my dick in and it’s very uncomfortable for her. She sees a pelvic floor therapist for this.
I was looking for some fun ideas of what we could do in the shower together since PIV sex is most likely off the table. I have been so horny ever since she said she wants to play in the shower. All I can think about is licking every inch of her body. Any suggestions?
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Lot’s a oral. Maybe eat some booty and see if some slow and sensual PIA might be interesting.
Shower time is the perfect time to eat some ass!
Is that common for women to enjoy PIV less or not at all after birth?
Well I’d say your instincts are good and go ahead and lick every inch of her body. My wife and I like getting all sudsy and sliding against each other while making out. PIV in a shower is a pain so I’d focus on kissing licking and groping. Maybe use the shower head on her pussy or ask her to use it on herself.
Bring some silicone based lube with you (sliquid or uberlube are both great) and use it on each other. She can stroke you, you can use it to make fingering her pussy and clit stroking better, if you guys are into (or open to) ass play, it will make fingering fun for whoever receives. Apply it to her whole pussy/upper thigh area and have her cross her legs, and have some outercourse. Sky’s the limit. Have fun! The 2 years after our boys were born were the hardest for my wife and I sexually. Good on you guys for continuing to find ways to play!
Edit: If ass play is something she’s hesitant about, the shower is a perfect place to explore. My wife always said anal was completely off the table. However, over the years she became more open to exploring new things and now we are in the process of starting anal exploration. Go slow and read her reactions. With her PIV limitations, it might be worth a conversation to explore her openness to trying. Might be awesome for both of you.