During covid, I put almost all of my energy into workout out, and Im in a position where I feel like I should have devoted more effort towards being social, and interacting with others around me. I am recently out of a long relationship, and I feel like I’m emotionally ready to try again, but I have no idea where to start. I am almost completely introverted outside of my friend groups, which is also relatively new since covid. So my question is: How do I respectfully talk to cute girls at the gym? what conversational points do I bring up with someone I know nothing about, other than the fact that they’re attractive?
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Try to get eye contact first but make it very fleeting, walk up in between sets, compliment something non sexual- like their form or the weight, based on their reaction ask if you can get their insta or do this but ask for the insta another time so she can warm up to u not being a creep
As a woman, I can tell you that being hit on at the gym is so so off putting. I’ve been followed to my car, had my personal space invaded & generally harassed by men at the gym more times than I want to admit. Don’t hit on her, don’t ask for her information right away. And if she seems uninterested when you try to make conversation, take the hint. Sorry my advice isn’t more positive but I promise I’m trying to be helpful