Last July, I was at my very last waitressing shift before heading on maternity leave. While pregnant and serving, I felt relieved because I could talk to men without coming off too flirty (I’m a Libra, it’s in my nature; bite me). Anyways two men come into the restaurant, I have a couple of other tables but overall it’s pretty quiet. They show up at lunch time on a Thursday and the drinks are flowing from 12pm-4pm, they have a little snack but mostly seem to be doing business work. They’re both pretty tipsy towards the end of my shift, and one of the guys goes to the bathroom. I see their drinks are low so I go to ask the remaining man if they’d like another.
He looks me in the eyes and asks “so how have you been doing, really?”
I say “it’s been good, this is my last shift though”
He says out of no where “I have a thing for pregnant ladies”
I always have a very readable face, I stare at him, mouth open a little, just lost for words.
He tries to back paddle..
“Like, I have a lot of respect for them..I opened doors and stuff when my ex wife was pregnant”
I looked like a blimp at this point, so it was hard to think anyone would have found me attractive lol. I accepted that it was a miscommunication, but when I told other people they were convinced he was hitting on me.
Thoughts? đ
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He was hitting on you
Pregnancy kink is a thing that a lot of folks have, it’s not that unusual, so he was very likely hitting on you.
Pregnant women are very sexy. It is hard wired into us. Promotes to proliferation of the species.
Sounds like he was flirting for sure! When I was waiting tables/Bartending I was making hella tips!! There are many men with pregnancy fetishes. & donât get me started on the breastfeeding fetishes!!!
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He was hitting on you. Given many men (like myself) like BBW women, I don’t see why it’s hard to believe pregnant wouldn’t be attractive.
Definitely hitting on you lol. I stopped serving almost a month ago and will be 39 weeks in 11 days. The amount of men who would give me âthe eyesâ or make flirty comments was⊠surprising.
I feel sexy pregnant because, well our bodies are a-fucking-mazing, but was taken off guard how someone other than fiancĂ© would find me attractive this big đđ
I’ve always loved pregnant women and I kind of figured out it boils down to two things, first it’s an outward signal that she enjoys sex (at least once) and second, you can’t get her any more pregnant.
I think it’s hot but I wouldn’t single someone out specifically for it.
Probably a bit of a grey area, unless your own definition of kink is pretty encompassing. It is within the range of normal responses for adult men to appreciate attractive pregnant women. I think I would only call it a kink if this was the main route for the person to get off.