I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks now who is in his thirties (I’m 28F) and I’ve felt like I’ve been living on a cloud. He’s just seemed perfect.. total gentleman and seems so genuine. The only thing is he can be a dry texter- always has been- so if he doesn’t reply or anything I get worried but as soon as I call him or he calls me he is jaunty and absolutely fine and then I realise I’ve been overthinking the whole thing.
He is going away for work this weekend for the next couple of weeks. I text him yesterday morning letting him know I’m working and if he wants to see me before he goes it will have to be today or tomorrow so just let me know etc. He never text me back :/ so obviously yesterday is out of the window but now for today what do I do? Do I ring him and ask? Text him with a “take that as a no then?” I constantly overthink these things but I’ve been ghosted so many times that my automatic reaction is he has gone off me and that’s why he didn’t text me back. And I worry if I ring him he will think I’m needy.
It only takes 2 minutes to send a text to someone I wish he realised how much I worry about this stupid shit.
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If he’s not responding, don’t pester and don’t follow up. Like zero. Wait til he responds and see what was up w his non response. I think it’s pretty disrespectful to not respond at all unless something huge happened. It’s a red flag.