I’ve been in a relationship with someone for roughly 10 months, although we’ve know each other for about a year. I feel like the relationship has ultimately gone nowhere and I feel awful. It’s my fault – I could see her more but didn’t try to advance the relationship at all.
We’ve never gotten into a fight or talked about our feelings really, and now I’m dreading what comes next. Planning on talking to them soon to be honest and say I haven’t put nearly enough into the relationship.
I’ve just been mentally torturing myself lately over this. I became distant and cold over the past few months. I let it get this way and it probably makes her feel terrible. The problem is she’s so sweet and so kind. She’s had an awful run of relationships and I should have just been honest when I realized things weren’t progressing. I just feel so so terrible right now.
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You should do a number of things.
1.) Why was this something you’ve done? Are you in therapy to figure out why? Have you googled your “symptoms”?
2.) You should tell her if you care about her. If you don’t, you should cut her loose and let her move on.
Your initials aren’t m.r.h.–are they?