The guy that I’m “dating” constantly complains of his future and finances.
When we go out together, I am often expected to pay my own way.. but when we aren’t together, he fills me in on his days that include restaurants, concerts, etc.
Why am I made to feel like he can’t afford to date me, but can afford to have a grand time on his own or with other friends?
Why do we have to spend our time together dwelling on his misfortunes, but he gets to enjoy celebrating his fortunes (or at least pretending to) with everyone else?
Not to mention, we live separately, and he always makes me feel like my living situation isn’t good enough for him, but I’m supposed to accept his measly living conditions that aren’t much better than mine..
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Question is why are you with him?
I’m more of a traditionalist… I believe men and women are meant to compliment each other. Never in my life have I met a man who would ask me to pay… but you get what you accept.
Nothing wrong with it, to each their own… but stop accepting it if you don’t like it.
What a cheapass loser
Its sounds like you are dating a jerk. I mean sometimes he should be paying for both of you guys. What he is doing is wrong. But in his defense gas prices and other prices are insane right now so im understanding of him not always wanting to pay for you