So on June 9th, it’s been a new tradition since last year to go out of my way and do something very special for my husband, anything he likes, since this was the day he risked his life and literally almost died trying to save mine (long story: read post history).

So recently he’s told me about this one fantasy he has where I basically wake him up from an evening nap (he gets hornier later in the day) with a long blowjob, while he eats some dinner I cooked and served to him.

I’d love to do this for him; it sounds very fun and hot! But I’d like some advice on how I should.

Should I be more passive/submissive or in control/take action?
How would I initiate it? (I want to make it a total surprise for him!)
What dirty talk should I incorporate?
Hes really into facefucking but my gag reflex is terrible – how can I overcome this??
How can I make this the best blowjob of his life? I want to make him cum in my mouth harder than he ever has! Lol.

Thanks for any advice!

(And ofc I’ll def do other stuff for him like maybe a back massage, bake him a cake, make him a card or letter, let him pick the movie and activity for the day, etc. He deserves it!)

TL;DR: Husband has a dinner in bed with a wake up blowjob fantasy. How can I make this the best blowjob experience he’s ever had?

2 comments
  1. Cook him a steak and suck his dick, most men would be over the moon at this

  2. There are two ways to go at it, so to speak.

    The first idea is that what you do with your mouth is so gentle that you can do it for a long time. And let him wake up with his mind catches on, so to speak.

    The second idea is that you do something so deliberately intense that he immediately wakes up.

    The ideas can certainly be combined; start slow and gentle. And notch it up when you feel that it’s about time that he actually is aware what you are doing.

    But both variants also stand well on their own.

    I think my first question is, uh, is he a sound sleeper in the afternoons? Or do you need to spend him some the night before so that he gets a hint sleep deprived and more easy to please without waking him up before you even get started?

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