I’ve only tried riding once, but my legs and thighs quickly started hurting and i needed to switch positions. I did it by bouncing up and down on his cock which was very enjoyable for both of us but i couldn’t do it for too long.
My partner is significantly bigger than me, i need to open my legs really wide to put my knees on each side of him. And I’m short/petite. I think all this makes it harder for me to ride him but i really want to enjoy this with him. Any tips? How can i make this easier for me? I really want to do it.
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Practice makes perfect. You’ll be able to do it for longer and longer each time you try.
Grind, rotate, and less of the up and down, you can reverse and put your feet on his thighs instead of by his sides. The secret is to experiment, fool around, enjoy yourselves and see what you like.
You just have to practice! You could get a dildo that sticks to something and just practice
Ride on your feet, not your knees!
Riding on a couch vs riding on a bed makes a big difference too. Couch gives the rider more leverage and the one being rode gets back support.
I, too, am HORRIBLE at this, and my boyfriend has zero patience for me learning. Glad to hear I’m not alone, because according to my boyfriend, I’m the only girl he’s ever met who has this problem. I will keep checking this thread for tips from others!
Tips to riding
1) get on top
2) do what feels good hopefully for both
That’s all you need to know
The duration you can ride will increase over time. It’s like running. The more you do it the longer you can run
If he’s bigger, put your knees on each side of him. And your ankles behind you, kind of between his legs. Then you can lean forward and put your hands on his chest to stabilize and use your lower legs to bounce up/down or circular. Or take it slow with up/down and back/forth rolling.
Lean forward so your chest is laying on his chest and you can kind of tuck your neck into his neck if you can picture what I’m saying. It should give you some good leverage and a better angle so you can just kind of use your squat to kind of just bounce up and down. I am probably not doing a good explanation of this. Imagine you get in a squat position. Now imagine you put your knees on the ground, spread, head and chest onto the ground like an ostrich. Then you can kind of just naturally bounce on it. So… head down, ass up *that’s the way we like to fuck* lol. That might help some. Lol if you still don’t get it I can try to draw an animation of it or something.
Get on your feet. Much easier!!