I’ve been in this scenario before SEVERAL times, am I the problem thinking they are moving way too fast? I been asked out like this before after the 2nd and 3rd date, where in the middle of the second date we usually kiss.
Am I overreacting or now that I’m 28 is this how thing roll?
tl;dr: Is it too soon for a girl to ask you to be exclusive after the 2nd or 3rd date when no sex has been had, and only kissing?
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I won’t have sex if we aren’t exclusive.
Personally I never waited longer than the second date to ask for exclusivity, i know what i want by then and i won’t be wasting months of my life to convince somebody that i am worth being exclusive with and i will not not tolerate them having other people around if i already like them enough to want a relationship. They are free to say no, that just means we’re incompatible.
i think it really depends how the dates go. I’ve had dated that lasted 7+ hours 💀 ifykwim. so really depends on ur feelings toward that person
Hmm, I would fraise it differently. You should try to have your focus on just one person at a time, that’s only respectful. But you have no obligation to, if you happen to meet another girl and you are in the situation where sex is a possibility, not move on it.
For me the difference is that I wouldn’t want to date someone who is actively looking for someone else. But we aren’t in a established romantic relationship yet.
Also I wouldn’t like to have sex withiut condom with someone that has sex withiut condom with someone else.
Personally I think it’s too soon. It’s barely enough time to get to know someone to actually want to commit.