I’m 24M and have only had real relationships while I was in college. (I’ve been single since graduation.)
One of the things people mention is compatibility and I don’t really know what that means. (I thought I had that with my ex but I know that more often than not it felt like I was trying more than her).
PS: I also haven’t met people enough. I just have guy friends that we meet and played soccer together on Sundays. Apps are literally just swiping (at least for me)