Yesterday was my (25f) second time with my fwb (40m). Our first hook up was pretty vanilla, but amazing so I knew I’d be back for more. So yesterday I went over and when he was ready, he finished in my mouth. No problem. But before I could swallow, he grabbed my chin and stuck his tongue in my mouth. We made out like that for a bit, so inevitably he swallowed some too.
I’m not complaining, it was incredibly hot. I was just caught off guard as I’ve NEVER had a guy do this before and this “ain’t my first rodeo” by any means.
So today I’m just trying to understand this more on a broader level.
As a guy, (if you’re into this) is this a turn on? Do you enjoy the taste or is this something done moreso for the pleasure of your partner?
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Some guys definitely do like the taste, im not into it but ik it is a thing usually developing towards older ages
As a straight guy I am horrified by this. LOL
I would never personally do this. I’m disgusted by my cum for some reason.
I know some guys are into it. But I don’t think many are.
A lot more men are open to kissing and making out after they have cum in their partner’s mouth or kissing them after cumming on their bodies. Many women find it endearing and even “hot”.
I’m 41. I’m not at all afraid of the taste of my own cum and I am straight as well. The first time I tasted my cum was when I was about 17 and a girlfriend kissed me with it in her mouth. This isn’t something I aim to do, but if it happens it happens. I’m in no way afraid of it and it doesn’t taste bad at all.
You should ask him. Perhaps he’s into more than just girls, or perhaps it’s just an act he enjoys or maybe he thought you were done swallowing 🤣.
And to answer your questions, personally this is not a turn on for me, I wouldn’t do this intentionally but if it happened organically I would have to roll with it because girls make out with me after I eat them.
For me it’s a massive turn on. My ex girlfriend once gave me a blowjob in the locker room of a swimming pool. She definitely liked being a dom so she started French kissing me directly after.
10 Years later and it’s still one of my strongest and horniest fantasy. The taste was simply irrelevant at the moment.
I like kissing a lot and definitely like receiving good oral. I am not going to let some of my own sperm get in the way of kissing my lady. Kissing is a natural/instinctive thing to do and most ladies seem comfortable kissing after receiving oral sex. As far as I am concerned, if it is good enough for her to swallow, it’s good enough for me to kiss her. That’s always been my feeling. Nothing unpleasant about it. I just naturally kiss after receiving oral. For OP, I wouldn’t overthink it. A guy isn’t going to go in for a kiss if he doesn’t want to. Since you thought it was Hot, it’s a win for everybody. At this point, I would just say to him that it was hot kissing after giving him oral. That way, you both know you are on the same page. Sounds like you got a good thing going.
it’s taboo and “wrong” so it’s hot, that’s about all there is to it
I won’t taste my own cum after masturbating but if I finish in a woman’s mouth and she kisses me or if she tells me to lick it off her body I’m so in.
Usually it’s a kink about mess and seeing or feeling or in this case tasting the evidence of the crime.
He was enjoying the mess he made in your mouth, probably. The other thing that occurs is I’m a bi dude and I like cum myself so I do this for that specific reason
If my partner is into this, it’s hot.
I wouldn’t think much of. I suck my husband off swallow and immediately kiss him. To that point he has eaten me out after he cums in me because I didn’t get off/ he got off to quick. I guess if I can fuck and clean him up my thought is a little cum won’t hurt him. To be fair I’m not sitting on his face letting it drip in his mouth. Although I do like that with other women when we party with other couples 😘😏😉
Only time I get close is after a crazy blow job an she finishes me fully ill make out with her, but personally I avoid tasting my cum others wise lol
The answer to all these is “yes”
Some guys like it some guys don’t. I make out with my gf after I finish in her mouth, not because I find it super hot (it is hot don’t get me wrong), but because it’s my own cum from my body lol. Why would I not be comfortable putting it in my mouth, especially when my gf is swallowing it?
[It’s called Snowballing](https://youtu.be/m_A58231NFk). It’s a thing at least since Clerks came out.
I’d be open to this if it would be exciting to a partner, but the scenario as you laid it out wouldn’t be especially fulfilling to me personally.
I do LOVE post-BJ kisses, with her mouth still warm and tasting of me, but swapping/snowballing is not a turn-on for me specifically.
Good on both of you for finding each other!
Are you bragging or complaining?
No the same thing as this. But I have finished inside my ex and then not very long after proceeded to eat her out. In the heat of the moment shit happens I guess. I personally don’t think about the fact of my cum being there. Also mostly focused on the clit.
YES. Please. Cum swapping is so hot.
Kissing someone after they make me cum is a huge turn on and kinda my way of saying thank you!
Okay okay, this is always such an odd question to me, as a girl who used to be in a relationship with another girl, there were no thoughts about whether or not to kiss after oral, you just did. It wasn’t a big deal. And I don’t even think of it as a gay thing, just that I’m almost surprised people think about it, because imo who would let oral take kissing away from the rest of the session?
My wife sat on my face after I came in her one time. It was fucking amazing.
I would be incredibly mad if some guy blew his load in my mouth and refused to kiss me after. Not saying I want to spit jizz in his mouth but when men act like you’re covered in shit after sucking THEIR dick it doesn’t sit well for me.
I love to kiss my girl when she has a mouth full of my cum! I will also lick it off of her and always eat her after I cum in her!
I’m not a man so I don’t have an answer to your question, BUT I just wanted to say I’m very happy for you & also a little jealous 😅 my ex boyfriend (2 year relationship) REFUSED to kiss me after I gave him head. Whether I spit/swallowed already he didn’t want the ‘residue.’ I literally had to gargle water in my mouth before he’d kiss me again. Thank god I’m out of that.
That…Thats fucking hot yo…
You lucky bitch. Wish my man would with me…
Ugh so hot. I’d love for my make-believe partner to do this.
I’ve never actually kissed with it still in my mouth (kinda want to tbh), but men who refuse kisses after oral are a dealbreaker for me. It’s a very intimate act, and to be rejected that way specifically really hurts imo.
If he goes down, especially if he finishes the job, he gets sloppy kisses. Maybe I’m just an animal, but I love it. So intimate and it just keeps sexytime going.