Sorry for the long post. This has been on my mind for a while.
TLDR: How does it feel when you have a “regular” orgasm vs how does it feel when you squirting orgasm? What do you need to do to achieve this?
I (23F) have been sexually active for the past year. This is my first time being sexually active. My by (23M) and I have a very good sex life. He’s very open with trying out new things, he always makes sure that I’m satisfied before he gets to finish, and he’s never pressured me to do anything I don’t want to do. When we first started having sex, I wasn’t sure if I was squirting or not. I didn’t know what it felt like. The only position I was comfortable with was cowgirl. We both assumed that the wet spots we found on the sheets were just dripping from me throughout sex. I was finishing 90% of the time. As we experimented more with different positions, the wet spots stopped, but I was still finishing.
Last week, we had sex with me on top, and after I finished, he told me that “I was dripping all over him” and that he knew it wasn’t him because he didn’t finish. I knew this time, it felt much different. And looking at what I left behind, meant that for the first month or so I was in fact squirting.
When I look it up, most descriptions of squirting are similar to peeing yourself. (It never felt like that; part of the reason I didn’t realize what was going on)
Does it usually feel different? How do you get it to happen? How often are you finishing?
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You described what happens to me every time I do 😂
I don’t typically feel it and usually don’t even know it happened most of the time until my bf says something about it. It’s always random for me, but usually it’s in cowgirl or doggy when it happens.
Same here, it’s not something we can make happen but it happens and for me it’s usually from oral or doggy style after I’ve already had a non squirting orgasm