i can consider myself mid when we re talking about social skills . im normal with the ppl my age but i can get a lil shy with older ppl. i was a new student this year . i tried to talk to ppl as mush as i can , but still had that one friend that im usually with . after a couple of months , ppl were nice so nice .but i started seeing no interest when talk to them including my friend . every time i see no interest i just cut that person off until i stooped talking to everyone in my class . i still dont know why . so i stop having the motivation to talk to ppl in general . i mean when i look back , i dressed good , my hair looked good , i was nice as much as i can . there is also this girl that i started talking to i used to see her always alone and once she tried to talk to me from that time ii tried to include her as much as i can so she wont stay alone . after a period of time she stooped talking to me . she ignored me and end up being friends with my friend . and started being rude for no reason . i dont know whats the problem . is it something with my personality or what? and now i just feel disconnected from my friends . i dont feel like myself with them . i feel unwanted or left alone .
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It sounds like she’s not as interested in you as she hoped, and she’s afraid to express it directly, and is giving you shade to get you to go away. If you were an adult I’d say to address it directly and ask “is everything okay between us? It seems like you’ve been distancing yourself?” But I’m wondering maybe you just need to take the hint and give her some space. Talking to her about it could set off a bomb metaphorically speaking. Addressing it can work but you’d have to be very very careful to not upset her in the process, make sure she knows you’re not trying to guilt her, and you are okay with however she feels, you’d just like to know where you both stand if she’s willing to share.
If you’re a boy she may just think you want to date her and she feels a bit “ick” about it, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing about you. It just is what it is.
I feel your pain.
I keep forcing myself to talk with others and to lisen but there are many times when I do not want to.