So I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while I’m 17 and pretty new to sex my boyfriend was a virgin before me.. and I’d only done it once.. besides that we have great communication and he’s great in bed. He cares about my comfort and if I finish. But I’ve always been kinda scared to give someone a blowjob my jaw is kinda tiny.. even my orthodontist tells me that. and im afraid I’ll like scratch his dick on my teeth. He is fairly big and I have no Idea how to even go about it. He asked me for it once and I explained that I was kinda scared .. he comforted me and never pressured me or asked about it again… but he goes down on me and I feel it’s time for me to do the same.. so how do I give blowjob???? just the basics lol
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You really bring up a great point. If the mouth to penis ratio isn’t working it’s not going to be that great of an experience. I’ve gotten plenty of gnarly blowjobs that really weren’t very good, especially considering what my poor partner was going through to try and make it work.
Much better is if you try, and put some sincere effort into it and then give up and just admit to him he’s too big. Then follow up with a very wet sloppy sensual handjob bj split ( play, lick, suck the tip) for a while if you want to make it about him and make him feel good. Then just regular fun sex is great.
Yea, make sure you don’t hit his dick with your teeth, as an M, that really hurts haha. You could try it out, just to see how it goes. Don’t be nervous, take your time, use your tongue, control your rhythm, eye contact (very important!), nice dirty talk, and good technique. There’s no one definitive way to do it, it’s really a customizable space, where you can do anything you want, just so long as it’s within your boundaries. So, be creative and make sure you ask what he likes! And also, if it doesn’t work, you can still give him a nice handjob. Also, just for reference, the tip is a very sensitive area, so yea, I hope that helps, but again, it’s different for everybody, so there could be other good spots for him. Other than that, don’t be scared, and enjoy the experience!
While there is an encyclopedia of knowledge through each section of [this guide](https://tichaz.com/2022/01/20/blowjob/) on every step to properly give a blowjob here, I would want to address two issues you raise!
> But I’ve always been kinda scared to give someone a blowjob my jaw is kinda tiny…..
Doing a sex act for the first time is always scary, maybe your jaw is not tiny at all for his penis, look – even guys always fear their penis is tiny for the vagina, but does this stop them from having sex with you?
My practical advice is that start off small. Play it smart and include blowjob in your foreplay. Don’t do it until you finish him off, instead, after a short while, switch again or [move on to intercourse.](https://tichaz.com/2022/01/14/starfish/)
Knowing that sucking him off is not necessarily the only way for him to orgasm eliminates a lot of the pressure and makes you feel more confident and in control. You will be more comfortable with having his penis in your mouth and would also be more open to experiment.
With time and improvement, those shaky 20-30 seconds can and will turn into full-on blowjobs for a great pleasure!
> so how do I give blowjob????
Provided you’re not a mini-me, you can usually fit the head of a huge dick in your mouth, but the shaft is left starving for attention. Good thing you have two hands! Or at least one! I don’t know you!
Try putting a little blob of lube between your hands, rubbing them together, then gripping his cock with them. As you use your mouth to pleasure the tip of his dick, use your hands to fuck with the shaft.
It’ll feel the best for him if you can match the rhythm between your hands and mouth so it feels like one continuous tube … know what I mean? A consistent pace will feel awesome.
Just remember to think of your hands as an extension of your vagina … they’re there to do the work your mouth can’t.
SIDE NOTE: Having a big dick is a huge ego boost for a lot of men. So, cater to this. Tell him his dick is too big to fit in your mouth … [then fit it in your mouth.](https://tichaz.com/2022/01/20/blowjob/)
If you want to give it a try I’d advice using your lips to kinsa wrap over your teeth if that makes sense, like a barrier?
It’s all trial and error with any new partner. Men like it done differently so practice and see how he likes it and what’s comfortable for you. Also if you join it with a titty fuck it is easier because then you only have to lick the head.
Ohhh I have a small jaw too!! Good thing about anatomy accounting for that is the most sensitive part of a penis is (usually) the tip. So I just focus on that a lot😊