I (23F) am recently single after 5 years. I am know I am now emotionally ready for a relationship but I want to get out there and just have fun/hook up. I slid into a guys DMs almost 3 weeks ago and we’ve been mainly sexually texting with a few “good mornings” and casual conversations in-between. I know nothing will come out of the relationship because he’s in the military and not even in the same state as me. However, I find myself thinking about him a lot and get sad when he doesn’t respond fast enough, I also checked his followers and they’re all women that necessarily don’t look like me. And I instantly got jealous and sad. I just want to hook up but I hate that I’m having these feelings for someone I know it won’t work out with.
How do I STOP feeling and falling so easily?
People say it’s cause I’m a September Libra but I don’t know what the fuck that means. I just want casual sex without getting attached!!!
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Plenty of guys will tell you what you want to hear to get in your panties. I’ve seen it often and had to laugh every time (sometimes they say shit). mainly because it often worked. Now comes the difficult part: try to find out who actually means it.
I feel like with your emotions already you would get attached easily. I think you should seek out therapy for the emotions.
If you wanna screw around why are you texting the guy who’s not physically present? You’re a 23 yo girl, hooking up for you is as easy as buying groceries. Make a tinder profile, set the range to a few miles and get showered with guys of all types who wanna fuck you.