i’ve recently started having a lot of sex with my girlfriend. i tend to only see her on the weekends and when i do we ALWAYS end up having sex. Now i’m not complaining but there are weekends when i just can’t see her so i have to resort to masturbation and when i do it’s almost impossible to find any video i might like in most cases i can’t even get hard trying to masturbate alone and i literally have to force myself. it just feels like i can’t get sexually aroused by anything else other than my girlfriend. she can send me any picture and it turns me on. like i’m so confused about what my guy down there wants and i hate feeling like i have to rely on my girlfriend for pleasure. there are times when even if we do see each other we don’t have sex and i’m fully okay. It’s just i genuinely find it difficult to masturbate and even when i manage it feels unfulfilling like not good. I don’t know what i can or what i should do…
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Dude it’s okay. same here, her pics just hit different… I don’t even watch porn anymore
Responding to the title only: That’s a good problem to have!
Consider yourself very fortunate: most of the time it’s the other way around, and that’s more difficult to fix.
I have been with my wife for almost 10 years and I basically stopped masturbating in the first few months we were together. I feel like it takes away from sex too much.
I have the same problem with my partner. I’m demi sexual and I think it may be related to that but since I’ve been with my partner I can’t masturbate. Luckily it’s not the worse problem to have. It’s helped me spice things up with my partner. Honestly I discovered watching porn with them is actually quite enjoyable.
Stop trying so hard and enjoy the journey
I have that same problem. My husband and I started getting more frisky more often again and I haven’t been able to please myself at all ever sense we started getting it more and idk why
Well I think this is a good thing! That is sort of what build’s a physical connection lol. Too much men rely on porn
I thought I was the only one with this issue like I can’t finish unless I think about him that’s it sometimes I don’t even wanna masturbate at all 🙃