My (25m) gf (23f) and I have a great sex life, I always make sure she comes at least once before me. Usually that’s from her being on top, but I really want to be able to make her climax in missionary. (I feel more intimate with her in missionary)
I’m fairly new to piv, and would love any tips or tricks for missionary specifically. I know ever woman is different, but if I can throw a few different things at the wall maybe something will stick
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There’s your own best advice. Throw a few different things at the wall and see if any stick…
I orgasm by my partner grinding into my clit and occasionally a vibrator.
I never could make my wife come during missionary (although it is one of her favorite positions).
Table Top on a high bed is thr next best thing that really gets her there.
YMMV
Have you or her hold a vibrator against her clit during missionary
I typically “massage” my wife’s A-spot or P-spot with my dick. Light, circular movements of my hips. No thrusting.
Modified – put her ankles on your shoulders. Bonus if you put a pillow under her hips.
Lots of women just can’t cum that way. The ones that can I have found, cum from grinding your pubis into her clit. You can do this either with a circular motion or with very short, deep thrusts. Give birth a try and see what feels better for her. Communicate! Talk while you are doing it and ask what feels better. Move around and find the pleasure spots that work for her.
Wedge a vibe between you that being pressed to her clit
With a vibrator. Most women can’t orgasm from PIV sex, be thankful she can whilst on top
My wife and I love missionary! It’s our favorite, and she almost always cums during PIV in that position. The secret for us is that I prop myself up on my non-dominant elbow and reach my other hand down and play with her clit while I thrust. Gives me something else to focus on which helps me last longer, and gives her blended orgasms basically every time. Another option that we have recently started playing with is couples vibes. A vibe cock ring and a We-vibe. Those add clit stim during missionary without me having to do anything extra.
Try “riding higher.” For example, if you two were the exact same size, your eyes would be level with her forehead. What this does is it puts the shaft of your penis against her clit, so when you thrust in and out there’s constant rubbing. 60% of the time it works every time.
Coutal Alignment Technique. Try to replicate the angle and motion she uses when she is on top.