Me and my bf have been dating for a few months and we haven’t done anything sexual with each other.
I’ve tried initiating sex with him a few times but he always just stops anything from happening. I tried to bring it up to him two times and he just says he doesn’t know why he does it and we can have sex next time.
I thought this was one of those next times today and I was trying to get him to have sex with me. But I noticed he just wasn’t feeling what was happening
So I started touching myself and I tried to get him to help me ….then he got up, said sorry and left.
I’m so embarrassed. It’s been two hours and he hasn’t texted me. What am I supposed to text him? Am I just trying too hard to try to make something happen?
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Ok I can see how that hurts your feelings. Stop pressuring him and have him sit down and have a serious talk with him. If he has boundaries he needs to communicate them. Don’t let him shrug you off, he needs to communicate. If he absolutely refuses there is nothing you can do.
A couple of things come to mind……
1. He is just not into you.
2. He is not into women.
3. He refuses to do anything sexual unless he is married.
These can be valid reasons if he refuses to do anything sexual with you.
Sound like valid reasons to me…
Could he be self-conscious and/or a virgin (and scared?)?