I’m still in high school (senior) and just starting to give oral sex to my bf — we’ve done it about 5 times and he cums each time and I swallow — I read a few “how to articles” that helped — I’ve gotten to where I enjoy it. Here are a few questions:

(1) he lays on his back and I get tired in my neck — what positions are suggested so we can go longer like if he’s still hard and wants a 2nd session that would take longer?

(2) why does ball sac tighten up before he cums?

(3) why do some men like prostrate massage and how do I offer to finger his bum hole without seeming weird?

(4) is it true that digesting cum makes you happy? A friend sent me these — lol

[https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-anti-depressant/](https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-anti-depressant/)

[https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201101/attention-ladies-semen-is-antidepressant](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201101/attention-ladies-semen-is-antidepressant)

thanks kindly

7 comments

  1. 1: Have him stand or sit. Alternatively, lie on your back with you head off the bed and have him ‘fuck your throat’.

    2: There are many small muscles through the area. Much like women tensing up before release, so do men.

    3: Prostates are sometimes regarded as a man’s g-spot. Some men like it. Some don’t. Just ask him. You’ve had his wiener in your mouth. Asking is nothing compared to that.

    4: Don’t know about this one. The volume is pretty small but it contains horemones which don’t take much to effect the body. Gonna need further research on this.

  3. Part of the male sexual response cycle is the scrotum pulling the testicles closer to the body before ejaculation, the added pressure aids the sperm coming out of the testicles.

    You can stimulate the prostate indirectly by pushing “up” towards his head with your fist. Not hard, slow and steady. Another way would be pressure at the top of his butt crack towards his penis. Tell him you would like to try something you read about. Either way, the communication is key.

  4. I think you’re looking for a script, so here’s what I’d say since you’re worried, ” I keep hearing over and over that guys like a finger on their prostate/in their ass and that it makes the orgasm feel incredible? Wanna try it?”

    If he says yes, make it clear he can say stop whenever he wants and you’ll immediately listen

  5. 1. 69 position. Even if he’s not eating you out, the angle makes it so much easier for deep throating and super long sessions.
    2. 🤷‍♀️
    3. The same reason we like our g-spot fingered, it feels good. Start by rubbing the taint. See how he responds. Move lower. Circle the b-hole. If he seems into it, get a lot of spit on that finger and ease it in. Curle your finger back up toward the balls and find his prostate (it feels hard and about the size of a walnut). Slow and soft massage.
    4. It makes me happy. 😊

  6. For me’ the most comfortable is him sitting on the couch and kneeling or sitting in front of him. Good access, not too hard on your body. You might have to try a few times to ring the right height for him to sit at. One or both of of you can sit on pillows to adjust as needed.

  7. 1 – you will have to practice to find the most confortable position for both of you. He can stand before you sitting on the bed. I usually Lay on my Back and My wife usually put her head on my belly when she does it.

    2 – Well it’s muscular. The penis pulse so it’s normal.

    3 – Nothing to say. I find it gross…

    4 – Certainly a legend as the « swallowing make your boobs bigger ». Possible but needs a LOT of it 😂
    But sex it all about intimacy and mutual pleasure so making your partner cum should make you happy. If you like to swallow, trust me he won’t complain ! 🤣

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