What do you do when you’re horny, but consuming porn or touching yourself won’t seem to be enough?

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1. Cry to my wife.

2. I dunno, try to distract myself with a hobby or something.

3. Go for a drive, play ps4. Something like that, and hope for the best

4. Find something that gives me more stimuli or just wait a few days before going at it again.

5. Try to have some self restraint and not send those risky texts.

6. High class heurs. Can’t really go wrong.

7. Let out a sigh of frustration then continue to go about my day because there’s nothing I can do about it.

8. Message your FWB what she’s doing.

9. This only happens when you have nothing better to do over staying thing at your hornyness!
   Go to find a job, a wife, make childrens, pay taxes and after die 😂

10. I jerk off.

11. Arrange my next booking with an escort.

12. I go for as many wanks as it takes to make the horny go away

13. Jack off repeatedly until it’s gone.

14. Hope my wife is in the mood for some facesitting

15. Go to the gym, burn your horny energy for fuel.

16. Don’t ask…

17. I try to jerk in a different scene, maybe the shower or on the bed. Other times I give up and try to do something else. So I might play some games or eat. After, if I still have the urge, it gets easier.

18. What more do you want, man???

19. More porn and more touching myself.

    I thought about paying an escort, but I know it won’t be just because of the sex.

20. Cook & eat

21. I’ve never had that issue. I have been so horny that jacking off doesn’t seem like it’ll be enough, but after jacking off, I’m good.

22. 32, M, I just deal with it and try to use the energy/thought process for working out or something. It sucks but I haven’t masterbated in 5 years and I did it recently and it was NOT it. Post nut clarity hit me like a mid life crisis.

23. Draw

24. I’m going incognito and admire female redditors

25. I either game or go exercise.

    If one workout doesn’t work, another might.

26. 3dxchat

27. I’m a male, and when I feel like that I walk into my local asian massage parlour and have a 1 hour massage. At the end she applies some oil to my manhood and milks it till kingdom cum. I tip her, leave and get back to whatever I was doing before I got horny.

28. There has never been a time where porn & masturbation hasn’t been enough to keep me at bay

29. Go for a drive.

30. Have my girlfriend fuck me while I lie down

31. Work out or go for a night run.

32. Sexually harass my wife.

33. Swipe and hope for the best

34. Stop watching porn and stop touching myself. If I stop stimulating the feeling it will get less.

35. Before meeting my now wife, I used to watch porn on a daily, jerk off maybe once a day, maybe twice. And that nearly developed into a porn addiction. But that time has since passed and if I’m horny I ask my wife if she wants to bang, if she can’t, or doesn’t want to, I’ll wait. Sex is a lot better than jacking it. Doesn’t give the same dopamine hit as sex does. It’s more of a maintenance solution. I could jerk off once a day and not have that satisfied feeling. Or I could wait for sex, be satisfied for days and feel like I don’t need to jack it. So I opt for waiting. Delayed gratification at its finest

36. Usually it does the trick. If I don’t have much else going on I’ll sometimes go for round 2 later in the day.

37. Look for a guy to put his dick in me

38. Other hobbies normally help. But also, changing the focus you give on self-pleasuring can be quite useful (try to make masturbation more about a well-planned treat for yourself).

39. You mean besides Drinking the blood of a virgin?

40. Just be miserable, there’s nothing else I can do really, it takes 2 to “tango”

41. A hobby or exercise. After a certain point, jerking off is just looking for serotonin more than actually being horny. The first two result in actual personal progress to some degree, jerking off doesn’t really get you anything and it’s an easy get – you know you’re going to nut most of the time. You can do it any old time.

    Why not try something challenging and have a greater personal result from it and a new skill or ability?

    That’s been my thinking when I was hit with this question.

42. Start feeling shame.

43. Stop watching porn. You’ve desensitized yourself.

44. I dunno for me I usually get a hook up but once I’m at that stage where even porn does nothing for me I try to have some self dicipline and lay off of it for a while.

45. If I’m not good enough for me, no one else will be. Self love bro.

46. Stop watching porn, instead start to fantasize.

47. Finish yourself off, then the feeling abates

48. I’m in this boat right now. Super high sex drive, but my interest in porn and masturbation is drying up. Been single for 2 years, was my first relationship ever, and lasted 7 months. I am early 40’s. Super sexually frustrated.

    I chose to book some time with a companion. It is a safe, boundaried place where I can express my sexuality with someone who does this professionally. I don’t have to endure the pressure of trying to go on dates with women when all I can think about is “how soon to sex?”

    The lady I booked with is young and smart, works independantly, and has a professional website that details her services. She is a low volume provider who places an emphesis on connection and intimacy.

    She has a strict screening policy for her safety which makes me feel safe to book with her. This is my time. This is my spa day. It is OK to need sex and that need doesn’t go away just because you are single. And I need it to be with someone who is safe, clean, professional,

    I don’t know if this helps you or not, but I just wanted to share my situation. Male companions aren’t likely as readily available as female, and if you are going to consider this, I STRONGLY reccomend you do a LOT of research about the industry as a whole, and about a potential provider you might wish to see.