I know its a really young age for marriage but I think I found the woman of my life. She is 18 and she is perfect, I want to ask her on the pride of my city which is in 8 days but I have nothing. No ring, no pretty discourt, I just want to propose her and im scared she says no. My dad said that I have to go slowly and not scaring her but I think im the one who’s scared lmao. Any tips or advices ?
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If she’s the one, there’s no need to rush it. Just take it slow and have fun. It’s better to talk about your goals and futures to be sure you’re both on the same page and such before jumping directly into marriage!
It’s common for relationships between women to progress much quicker than heterosexual relationships, feelings escalate on both sides much quicker and that’s why such stereotypes as “uhauling” exist.
I think some things are important: How long have you been together? Have you two already discussed marriage? What are both of your future plans, do they line up together?
When my wife proposed to me, we had been together for over a year, had lived together, had discussed marriage so she knew I wanted to get married, and we had settled past the new relationship energy that dominated the start of our relationship. I’d advise getting somewhere similar beforehand, as sweet as proposing at pride is.