(21M) I liked my friend,and didn’t work out coz she started dating a guy before me even asking her out..felt my insecurities rising also went into low self-esteem thingy..
Then I stopped being her friend and basically exited the group..she came to know I liked her and didn’t do anything..this was 1 year ago.
In the past 1 year I got proposed twice,by diff girls and found new friends..now I used to think that problem was in me and that nobody could ever like me..turns out I was wrong.
I ended up rejecting the girls coz for the first time in my life I am single and I feel happy to be..I now know what I truly want in my partner and what really drives me to be attracted to someone..problem being I found out that the type of person I usually fall for are wayyyy to rare in this world, so yup staying single coz atleast this way I won’t hurt someone by being ignorant about it and hurting their feelings. Thanks for listening to me.